Christmas can be tricky to navigate...so many triggers...
Here are a few tips…
The festive season, while filled with joy for many, can be a challenging time for those battling addictions. The stress, expectations, and loneliness that often accompany Christmas can trigger addictive behaviours.
Have you ever wondered how you could support friends and family who face these types of struggles?
Here’s how you can provide support as an individual, friend, or family member:
• Recognise Christmas Triggers: Understand the season’s challenges and temptations. Encourage honest conversations with God, trusted friends, or support groups.
• Spiritual Significance: Reconnect with the true essence of Christmas to better manage expectations and gain a healthier perspective.
• Embrace Grace and Mercy: Offer reminders of God’s forgiveness, especially when facing loneliness, shame, and guilt from past actions.
• Gifts from the Heart: Encourage heartfelt giving and rebuilding trust within families, keeping expectations realistic.
• Dealing with Memories: Be mindful of how past experiences, both good and bad, can resurface and potentially lead to a relapse. Support groups can be a significant aid in this.
• Sober Celebrations: Help find enjoyable ways to celebrate Christmas without resorting to substance use.
• Avoid Enabling: Be cautious about giving money or gifts that might inadvertently support addictive habits.
• Set Boundaries: Create a safe, temptation-free environment for family gatherings.
• Light and Stress-Free Atmosphere: Minimise stress as it can be a major trigger for substance use.
• Seeking External Support: Family members may benefit from external guidance to create a safe, compassionate environment for everyone involved.
This Christmas, let’s extend our understanding and unwavering support to those on their recovery journey.
Sally Childress
Co-founder of Free! Recovery alongside her husband, John
